Saturday, October 24, 2009: Steve Wegman, his boys, myself and my boys all went to celebrate the fall at Niederman Farm in West Chester. As the boys ran off to play, Steve and I sat down at a picnic table and he pulled out a beautiful ring and asked me to be his wife! He later recreated the moment in front of all the boys so they would be a part of it. I thought that was so wonderfully creative and considerate! He even got down on one knee! All the boys clapped and were very excited. Ethan, at first, thought maybe it wasn't' real so he asked "wait a minute...did you really ask her or were you just faking?" HAHAHAHAHA!!!!
I remember Michelle Smith of RLC over at my house with all the other wonderful ladies supporting me right after Rob left and telling me for some reason she kept sensing the number "3" when she prayed for me. She had no idea if it was because there were 3 of us (myself, Ethan and Noah) or what, but had a strong sense it meant "3 years". This summer, when we plan to wed, will be 3 years after Rob left.
God is faithful and a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
Oh, how He loves you and me!
Monday, October 26, 2009
Friday, October 23, 2009
Personality Profile
A long time ago (in a galaxy far, far, away...) when Rob and I first began counseling (like 1999 or 2000 I believe) the first order of business was to take in depth personality profiles. Our counselor, Dr. Sigvertson, was wonderful in interpreting these from a standpoint of how we think as individuals, how we process events and situations, and how we relate and communicate to one another as a couple. It did wonders for our relationship at the time - when both of us were working towards the common goal of improving ourselves and the marriage.
It also helped me to deal with disappointments and future hurts as I understood how my mind works. And how that relates to my spiritual side. Dr. Sig is very talented at looking at the info and data clinically, then interpreting what it means through the Truth of God's Word. This information armed me to not only be better in my dealings with my intimate relationships, but co workers, acquaintances, and also my relationship with Christ. Once I understood MYSELF better, I didn't have to figure everyone else out! Amazing, huh?! LOL!
I learned enough from the years of counseling to know this: information is key. And any couple wanting to keep their relationship strong and healthy would do well to have this information in their toolbox - not to change and manipulate each other, but to understand, empathize and work cooperatively and respectfully with one another as we grow. That is why I was more than pleased when Steve agreed enthusiastically to take this same profile.
Last night we had a phone conference with Dr. Sigvertson as he refreshed me on my results and explained Steve's results to him. To summarize, the end result is that we are both almost perfect compliments! Our similarities were in resolution, not storage - we both were strong in our ability to eventually realize the difference between emotions/feelings and truth and choose truth. Dr. Sig was able to point out where conflict may occur due to our differences in processing and perception, and also help us start to think of ways to deal with those things in healthy, productive and proactive ways.
I am so excited about my future with this man! God is amazing. It's almost as if He designed Steve with me in mind! Isn't it wonderful how He loves us?
It also helped me to deal with disappointments and future hurts as I understood how my mind works. And how that relates to my spiritual side. Dr. Sig is very talented at looking at the info and data clinically, then interpreting what it means through the Truth of God's Word. This information armed me to not only be better in my dealings with my intimate relationships, but co workers, acquaintances, and also my relationship with Christ. Once I understood MYSELF better, I didn't have to figure everyone else out! Amazing, huh?! LOL!
I learned enough from the years of counseling to know this: information is key. And any couple wanting to keep their relationship strong and healthy would do well to have this information in their toolbox - not to change and manipulate each other, but to understand, empathize and work cooperatively and respectfully with one another as we grow. That is why I was more than pleased when Steve agreed enthusiastically to take this same profile.
Last night we had a phone conference with Dr. Sigvertson as he refreshed me on my results and explained Steve's results to him. To summarize, the end result is that we are both almost perfect compliments! Our similarities were in resolution, not storage - we both were strong in our ability to eventually realize the difference between emotions/feelings and truth and choose truth. Dr. Sig was able to point out where conflict may occur due to our differences in processing and perception, and also help us start to think of ways to deal with those things in healthy, productive and proactive ways.
I am so excited about my future with this man! God is amazing. It's almost as if He designed Steve with me in mind! Isn't it wonderful how He loves us?
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Abstract Art?
I don't consider myself an artist, really...nor do I feel I have a good eye for pictures. But I was at setwork for Midsummer Night's Dream earlier this week and this is what I saw in my paint tray. I thought "huh. That's kind of cool looking". Now throw in some vary random and deep-sounding name like "The Futility of Struggle" and voila! Abstract Art. I'll even sign it with illegible handwriting.Do I hear a $10,000...going once, going twice....
Starving artist my eye... :)
Math and Science Exam Answers
I put these on my Facebook page as well - they are too funny not to share! Enjoy!
Sunday, October 11, 2009
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