wedding plans...

OK, now that the holidays are done (check) and the quarter is coming to a close with finals this week (check), I'm actually getting excited about planning my wedding!  Who knew?  Since we are doing this in June, and it's a second, it will be a casual, garden-themed party with family.  We are planning a very lovely, meaningful service that involves all the kids, having a picnic style reception and dancing, dancing, dancing! 

One thing that clinched the garden theme was my Monarchs.  I have raised them since 1999 in MN.  I miss them here in Ohio - oh we get a few towards the last third of the summer, but nothing like in MN.  Those insects have been a source of pleasure and inspiration for me for years.  They have made their way into my curriculum, into my decor, into my extra curricular activities, into my sermons, into my wardrobe, and into my life and heart.  Oh, the lessons I have gleaned from these marvelous creatures.  And I've decided to release some symbolically at my wedding. 

They are a symbol of tenacity.  Beating the odds, ahead of the fray.  Of renewal - renewal of spirit, body, mind, and hope.  A symbol of beauty and grace.  Delicate yet strong.  Attractive yet poisonous.  I'm such a sucker for paradox!  ;)  Even the contrast of their orange wings against the backdrop of a clear blue sky - opposing colors - draws me.

We are also going to opt for a sand ceremony rather than a candle.  I think it lends itself to a blended family better and can include the children more.

I will keep all of you posted on how the plans go complete with pics as appropriate and available.  I wish I could throw a shin dig and have all of you who have played such an instrumental part in my life here with me.  From  Fairfield High School, to Lee University, to Minnesota - so many friends who are dear to me.  I know you will be with me in spirit on June 12th, 2010 at 4:30PM!  And I will be reflecting on how I am who I am partly because each of you planted a little bit of yourselves in my life somewhere along the line.  Thank you.  I love you all!